Friends Conundrum.

This post is about your friends and how you might lose them.

Okay, so we will have a couple of ways you could lose your friends:

1. So you become best of buddies, you hang out a lot (OR play :3) then your friend starts to hang out with other people, you get jealous your friend get's mad you break up.

1. ALTERNATIVE So you become best of buddies, you hang out a lot (OR play :3) then your friend starts to hang out with other people, you ask them why, they tell you they are getting a bored of always playing together, you either ADMIT "Me too" or you get a bit upset "I didn't know you didn't want to hang out anymore!" you then both come to an agreement and take times off but are still friends and help each other out sometimes.

2. You and your best buddy are walking and talking your buddy says they want to do something and you say "I don't feel like it right now..." your friend will either say "FINE! Be that way!" or "Oh, Okay I'll just go do it myself, you can watch."

2. ALTERNATIVE  You and your best buddy are walking and talking your buddy says they want to do something and you say "I don't feel like it right now..." your friend will either say "Okay, sure we'll do it another day" or "Oh! Are you okay? Are you feeling bad?"

3. You and your friend spend a lot of time with each other. You get sort of bored and tell your friend that your busy the days that you aren't and invite other people over. Sooner or later your friend finds out. They get mad and swear to NEVER EVER talk to you again.

3. ALTERNATIVE You and your friend spend a lot of time with each other. You get sort of bored and tell your friend that you feel like taking a break she could say "Yeah me too, I think it would be good" or "Sure..." (If they look like they have a sad and scared face ask them what's wrong)

The reason you should keep your distance in friendships:

Some people get EXTREMELY bored if they play too frequently with another person, I, am NOT one of those people, when I was young, I brought 2 of my best friends over, they were also best friends. I started to play one game with them, they said I'm bored now, another game to trash the house up with, I'm bored now, Until I got so annoyed of moving around I said I will keep playing this game! So they went to play the first game we played except they were having so much fun together, at MY house, with MY toys, trashing the house which I then had to clean up shortly afterwards. So I went over to them and asked if I could play, They let me in then they whispered to each other and then said, "We are bored here let's go play something else!" I said "why can't we play this?" They said "because we are bored!" I finally gave in and just let them trash the house and not help afterwards. 

Another shorter example, I had a birthday party, I invited lot's of friends. One girl hated me but I had no idea. She stole one of my toys, but luckily her mum caught her and she had to give it back in person. In fact it was one of my favourite toys! She gave it back, she DIDN'T apologize! And then just took off!

That was my Friends Conundrum helping thingy.... I hope it helps you with possible future friendships you want to end NICELY!